Flexible?

When the people around me was weak..then that was the time for me to become strong,to protect them and take care of them..i wonder..if no one stand up and giving help for those who need it,then what will happen?that's why i will make myself to become stronger no matter how...Conversely,if the people around me was strong enough,omg.....i will become weak and rely on them,just like a little girl....sigh.......am i consider as a flexible person?hahax....